Are you worried about handling and raising a baby, then you are right? Because Parenting is a most difficult and fulfilling job, to raise a well behave and well-manner person for society is the responsibility of parents. But it's one of the less focused and less learned jobs. No institution gives the how-know of responsibility and sense of raising a kid before marriage or starting a parenting life. This brings a lot of loopholes. The child demands attention, care, love, and for that parents, must have time and feelings.
To develop a Parent-Child Bonding is a skill as you are raising a human being who is growing day by day, have a choice, and can reject and accept your behavior. According to reports, the basic reason for child depression is negligence from parents. When a child does not connect to their parents and parents don't have enough time for them then they search and opt for different activities and may be lost in their thoughts. For building the bond and attachment one most important thing that can help is a connection.
Teena my friend brings the change in her life after learning this skill and there was no book or course but she learned it by wasting some happy moments and now she is planning to arrange a course or any workshop to make parents especially mothers skillful in parenting.
This article will help you to learn this skill, its importance, and ways to build a parent-child bond fast.
Be Expressive
Share Your Routine
Share your matters with your kids, it will bring involvement and care bd build Parent-Child Bonding.. Share your office routine, discuss colleagues' behavior and convey your opinion about an event or situation. Ask your kids about their routine and the favorite part of the routine, what they did at school and which game they play. It helps to make a stronger bond between parents and kids.
Ask Their Opinion
Listen to them, as listening is the base of connection and bond. let them explore their thoughts and views. Ask about their opinions before deciding anything for them or even for yourself. Whenever you’re going to buy a dress or shoe, ask your child to select one for you. It will bring confidence and value in them and they will do the same in their life decisions. Teach them to listen and discuss s it is a focus point to develop Parent-Child Bonding.
One of my friend’s children was so shy and loves to live alone, I suggest her take your children to a shopping mall and ask him to buy things. This will flush away their hesitation and yahoo, they are doing better day by day.
Play With Them
One of the key factors, to build a strong and secure bond with your kids is to come on to your feet or even knees. Children love to talk during playtime or with their playing partners. They trust in a person who sacrifices their time for them. It will also able you to know their habits, concern, and interest. Play any game whether it’s a doll, ball, cards, or singing songs but all your kids need your undivided time.
Give Them Thumbs Up
Come on parents, learn to cheer up. Your single gesture can bring life to your children. One high-five and thumbs up can make you friends and build the strongest bond among you. Also, surprise them by giving the go on gesture on things that are not allowed normally. You can allow extra screen time as a treat or surprise. Show kindness and learn what they are demanding at the moment. is one of the best ways to develop Parent-Child Bonding.
Talk About Faith
Religion is not a secondary thing, discuss the religious norms and allow them to share their ideas. You can also tell them about different religions and discuss them. This will help in broadening their horizon and also make a stronger and more secure Parent-Child Bonding between you. Also, make them realize that you have faith and trust in them whatever decision they will take.
Julie my neighbor was very strict about her faith and so was her husband but their daughter want to go with another one. They handled the matter strictly and did not allow her to fulfill the desire. That young and energetic girl left her house and later Julie and her husband were in repent.
Nick Names Are The Connection Builder
In my school days, it was common practice that we friends used to call each other with nicknames and show our love, friendship, and bonding.
The same goes for children to keep their open or secret nicknames and enjoy family time. You can also keep those names for personal use to give them the lesson of special bonding.
Fix Some Morning And Night Rituals
Huggies, kisses, and greetings are the best things to build a bond, fix your routine such as storytime before sleep, and hugs to all your children can build your bond and make them aware that love needs to be expressed. The quality time will not only boost the confidence and self-esteem of kids but also strengthen your bond.
Party Out For A Few Days
Pick up a day to spend with your child, you can also give them a surprise or can take them out at their place of interest. A child when goes outside, discover new things and broaden his horizon. For making a child strong and for strengthening your parent-child bonding it is necessary to spend time according to the way they want.
Eat Food As A Family
Food time is the best time that not only helps kids to learn manners but also makes the bonds stronger. Dinning place is the best place to give and teach the maximum lesson of life as a child can learn to sacrifice and to share. These attributes are much more important in building Parent-Child Bonding. So always try to eat food as a family
Involve Them In House Chores
Keep them involved in house chores especially on holidays.
I always assign one task to my one child on the holiday and after finishing that I appreciate them, sometimes by giving their favorite food treat or toy. This helps in knowing their abilities and interest and I tried maximum to make them available for them.
Set Boundaries And Rules
With all the things, do remember you are the parents and you know better about right and wrong. You have to take care of your child and also be answerable to the law if they did wrong, so keep a check on them and set some boundaries and rules. Be strict about them and implement them as much as possible.
Provide The Path To Their Dreams
Parenting is actually to fight on every point. You can do one more thing to strengthen and secure the bond with your kids by giving importance and paving the path towards their dreams and interests. Help your children to fly and achieve.
Be Flexible
Your always "No" will irritate your children even at the age of 2 years. So you need to be flexible and add "should" in your life rather than a "must". Be flexible in your rules, decisions, and routine. This will help to mend a bond between you and kids as they feel you and love you for allowing them to do something that is their favorite.
Act As a Team
Last but not least, remember one thing you both ( mother and father) are a team and must be on one page when it comes to your children. Don’t say bad or jealous about each other. This will ultimately hurt your child. You both are a team and your purpose in life is good parenting and a strong bond with your kids.
Above all points will help to build a fast Parent-Child Bonding. If you are struggling or new parents then follow these steps and believe in me you will find a solution. Which factor helps you a lot and work for you tell me in the comments.
Cheers,
Happy Parenting.
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